Kathy Munger - A truly great soul
I want to say how grateful I am to Kathy Munger’s daughter, Kerry for taking the time to phone and inform me personally of Kathy’s death last week. Saturday’s memorial was beautiful, and I would not have missed it for the world.
Kathy was a very special friend to me - and, as it turns out, to hundreds of others in the community.
I met Kathy back when I was teaching senior fitness at the Dance Palace. Another good friend (and Kathy’s sister-in-law), Louise Landreth, brought her to my class. Almost immediately I felt a ‘special connection’ to this beautiful, soulful, sometimes whimsical woman, with her wry smile and unassuming manner. Of course, it was not until her memorial on Saturday that I discovered there were hundreds of people in the community who felt such a connection with Kathy. It seems that was her gift. Kathy had a way of connecting with anyone who was receptive enough to perceive, appreciate and embrace her profound human-ness.
Kathy was fearless. She loved a lively debate and had an almost uncanny ability to see through the rhetoric and hyperbole to the core of a given issue. She knew the truth when she heard it, and she held great respect for honest dissent articulated without hostility. Her ability to hold seemingly contradictory concepts /or points of view in her mind without resorting to ‘either-or’ logic was all too rare in these conflicted times.
As so many testified at her memorial, Kathy’s literacy was legendary. That literacy contributed to making Kathy not only well-informed, but, what can best be described as ‘enlightened’ - on so many levels. She was one of the few ‘true progressives’ I think I have ever known. Her passing at this particular time is especially significant for me because she understood the critical nature of respectful discourse, whatever our differences. She never lost sight of the Big Picture. When Kathy believed in a cause - or a person - she supported them with a fierce loyalty as steady as it was courageous. I was blessed to have been counted among those ‘causes.’ Kathy inspired and encouraged me through some very difficult times. Her ongoing support for SolarTimes continued until the day she died.
In many ways, Kathy Munger epitomized who we all strive to be. With her passing, the community has lost one of its greatest treasures. But Kathy was so much more than that.
If it is true that Great Spirits never really leave, but live on in those who love them most, then her family and closest friends are indeed fortunate.
Thank you, Kathy for being my friend. You are already missed.
Sandy LeonVest, Bolinas